Seven: Envy
The early Christian theologian, Augustine, called
envy the sorrow over other men's good fortune and
joy over other men's misfortune. Dante's Purgatorio
consigned the envious sentenced to Hell to having
their eyes sewn shut with iron threads. Since they
couldn't stand to look on other men's joys in life,
they couldn't look at other men's sufferings in Hell.
It is envy of Mordecai that launches Haman on his
mission to destroy the Jews in Esther's time. Envy
is what divided the Corinthian church into various
segments based on favorite teacher (Paul, Apollos,
Christ) or spiritual gift (speaking in tongues, etc.).
Aristotle believed that envy was particularly intense
among equals and the ambitious. In The Count of Monte
Cristo, envy of Edmond Dantès' promotion and
upcoming marriage to a beautiful fiancée drives
Mondego and Danglars to falsely accuse him of treason.
Envy is the seeing of oneself as unfairly disadvantaged
while seeing peers as unfairly advantaged. I may wish
I had Bill Gates' money, but I envy my friend's inheritance
of $10,000. I may wish I ran Donald Trump-type companies,
but I envy my coworker who received a promotion even
though they have been at my company six months less
than I have. Envy occurs when another receives what
could reasonably have come to me had the other person
not cheated in some way.
Envy causes one to only notice the blessings others
have or magnify those blessings and fail to see one's
own blessings or to minimize them. When one is spiritually
healthy, others' accomplishments are reasons for hope
and methods to imitate. But when one envies, others'
accomplishments are reasons for resentment, sabotage,
theft, and murder.
For instance, an A- student might envy the A+ student.
I had a classmate in high school who failed to win
the top grade in our math class. Upon learning that
she came in second, she promptly burst into tears.
I was 15th or 20th in a class of 22. I would have
been tickled purple to be second. Envy is seen in
a pretty girl who constantly nitpicks the faults of
a beautiful girl. It is seen in the first string player
who is jealous of the captain of his team and would
rather work to make the team lose than let the captain
receive praises for a win.
Envy causes us to belittle the good others are doing
or call their motives into question so as to cause
others to doubt them too. Envy is the mother of slander,
gossip, innuendo, and half-truths. It causes us to
exaggerate, over-dramatize, and make up facts when
telling about our own deeds and accomplishments and
minimize or delete facts when recounting the good
deeds of others. It is the itemization of other's
possessions and blessings and seeing whether we are
"ahead". Envy is the spending of time and
resources taking or obtaining more than what another
has. Envy rejoices when another loses what they have
that you don't.
The Elders